Our mentality is key to our emotional health and emotional health is the key to our relationships.
It is vitally important to know yourself. The Bible tells us to examine and judge ourselves. This is a hard and for most of us it is a painful task so we would rather avoid it, ignore or escape it. There comes a time when it’s time to deal with it. We all have trauma and have been victimized in one degree to another. But there is a time when are honestly not ready to deal with reality and there is time when we are ready. It’s called maturity. Not many people decide and accept maturity. It’s unfortunate. It’s easier to medicate the pain and check out our of reality. But checking out will nevre bring peace and joy. It will take these blessings away. There is short lived happiness in checking out and it hurts our relationship in a deep way.
If you are ready to face the reality you are maturing and you are ready to receive true lasting joy and peace. God helps us to mature because he created us to face reality, forgive and heal. I’m fact he himself said that he bunds up the broken-hearted. We are taken care of by God himself. What a joy to know that! Be blessed as you taking on a journey to healing ❤️🩹
Read this article to learn about yourself and ask God to heal you and bring out the truth about you and your mentality.
https://www.webmd.com/mental-health/what-is-a-victim-mentality#:~:text=%E2%80%8CYou%20have%20trouble%20coping%20with,gives%20you%20relief%20or%20pleasure
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